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me2we小編按：關係出現裂縫、且無法自我調適時，更要把握機會及早表達感受和需要。
關係終結模式第三階段：兩人期
前天提到關係終結的前兩個階段：裂痕期與內心期。今天要來跟大家聊聊若是關係在內心期的階段，無法靠自我的調適去修復，便會使得關係進一步的惡化，這時就會進入兩人期。
敞開彼此心胸，是修復關係的關鍵
兩人期的特徵是雙方決定要與另一方攤牌，把自己心中的想法告訴另一半，透過彼此的溝通與協調試著讓關係能夠漸漸恢復親密狀態。這時候需要的是願意傾聽彼此的能力，以及願意一同繼續會這段關係努力的意願。
逃避問題並不能解決問題
雖然兩人期是終結關係的第三階段，但其實這個階段並不會出現在每個終結的關係中，原因是很多人面對關係衰退的過程，會選擇逃避不去面對，以致讓這段關係喪失修復的機會，而直接走向盡頭
延伸閱讀 要丟？還是修！(3/5)－關係終結模式
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