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Me2We小編按:大家還記得「愛的語言」是什麼嗎?分擔家事就是分享愛,而且在今天的文章中,也展現了至少兩種「愛的語言」,大家看得出來是哪兩種嗎?^_^
做家事?誰的事
「不要客氣!盡量當自己家!」我輕鬆坐在客廳的沙發上,招呼朋友們就座。只見妻子獨自一人在廚房裡忙進忙出,清潔完所有餐具才來陪朋友聊天。在新婚的頭一年裡,來訪的三五好友對我有如此「賢妻」簡直是讚嘆不已,我臉上也藏不住幸福的笑容,但其實這種失衡的幸福是暫時的...
家事戰國時期
「你能幫忙擦桌子嗎?」妻子問我。「好啦,等一下!」我喃喃地回應後繼續埋首手機。「我請你幫小忙叫了好幾次,你知道我很累嗎?」妻子邊做邊抱怨。「我有說不做嗎?而且我們不是分工廚房歸你管嗎?」我逐漸大聲起來。妻子回應:「但是你一週才掃一次地,廚房的事每天都要做啊!你才做一點點⋯⋯。」「你一定要這樣計較嗎?」我直接打斷她的話生起氣來,兩人更因此大吵一架,並展開冷戰的一天。這樣的戲碼在一年內上演不下百次,我們雖嘗試用理性分工的方式解決家務難題,但是分工愈細,卻只會更加瑣碎而不近人情。
全職家事人夫養成日誌
我直到今年搬回家與父母同住,我的工作轉換也意外的顛簸。面對事業的失意,以及婆媳磨和帶來的緊張,我閒賦在家必須有所做為,才對得起家人的接納與自己的自尊。於是我挽起袖子做起家事:掃地拖地、洗衣晒衣、水電,甚至到做吐司、種菜,還有我最討厭的洗碗都包辦。意外的是,每當我多完成一件任務時,妻子臉上總出現驚喜的笑容和一句:「我好幸福!」這些就能帶給我大大的成就與享受。
原來,做家事不是耗體力的勞動,而是一次次對家人愛的表達,在妻子感謝的話語中,家事不但做完了,夫妻感情也更加甜蜜。在找到新工作時,我開玩笑地向身兼老闆的妻子申請要從全職轉變成兼職,她還相當不捨甚至慰留呢!最後我發現,丈夫對妻子的愛成為動力,讓我可以一直做著過去討厭的家事,而做家事更成為我們夫妻間一件浪漫的事。
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